scot with one t.

Posted on | April 16, 2010 | 65 Comments

that’s my hubs.

full of the awesome, yes?

and you know what? i’ve never really told you guys much about him. FOR SHAME. he is amazing, handsome (omg, handsome) and a kick ace proud papa. he is also the funniest guy i know, with my best friend alex coming in a close second (if you know alex, you get this, he looks like mexican jesus and is plain amazing).

scot and i met at the taste of tacoma, an event where you go and eat. and eat. and then eat some more. i’m sure your city has one. anywho, i thought he was super rude and he thought i was kind of loud and obnoxious (weird…). but we had some mutual friends, so we ended up seeing eachother every weekend. i was actually living about 60 miles north at the time, so i’d drive down to hang out with my friends every weekend. that particular summer (oh five) was awesome. you know when you can’t put an entire summer into words, but it was so amazing and fun and cool and perfect? yes, that. with a michael jackson, queen, stevie wonder and ray charles soundtrack. THAT was the summer of oh five.

one evening i laughed so hard i fell off the couch. and landed next to him. and our arms touched. and though i’d never looked at him that way, i all of a sudden did. and he did, too. MAGICAL I TELL YOU.

we spent the next few months eating sushi, driving over 70 miles to go on dates with each other, texting, myspace messaging (ew! myspace!) until one evening after dinner he asked me if i’d move in with him. his parents had bought a townhouse to rent out, he was moving in and wanted me to join him.

OHKAY.

you know when things are right? and you don’t even question something before you yell your answer? that happened. and it was set. the next two months held our first christmas (and looks of excitement from family as i opened my gift from him…a cell phone. HAHA, sorry guys) and discussions of marriage. i told him i didn’t need a ring, a gum wrapper one would suffice, i just needed and wanted him (have you barfed yet?).

after barely 5 months of dating, i returned home from a girls trip to california. it was an exciting day because i would see our new place for the first time and he had moved all my things in while i was gone. he picked me up from the airport and took me to my moms to get stella. i wanted arbys. we went to arbys. i told him about my trip. HOURS later we finally made it to our home. our home together. i was so excited to see it.

he walked me around each room, showing me the place we now lived. the kitchen, the living room, oh look this is the pantry, guest room, office, master bath, and lastly, the master bedroom.

[note: please get your swooning pants on and "AWWW" bucket ready]

as he opened the door i saw stuff. no bed, but a swirl of stuff. on the walls. my very first instinct was that he had done something sweet to welcome me home. but as he opened the door further i saw poster sized photos of us hung around the room. rose petals everywhere. streamers, candles, WOAH. a little table held champagne, 2 glasses, and…a tiny box.

holycrapholycrapholycrapholycrap

he knelt down, said inexplicably sweet things while i cried and shook and asked me to marry him. he opened the blue box and through my blurry eyes there it was.

a ring made out of a gum wrapper.

after i yelled “yes!” many times and we hugged and kissed and i understandably FREAKED MY FREAK, he finally said “that isn’t really your ring. you think i’d really not get you a ring? it’s over there” and pointed to a dozen red roses where my engagement ring was tucked into the petals.

and the following august we did this:

through many years and many ups and downs, this guy has never lost that romantic side. he does the most amazing things out of nowhere sometimes that blow me away. he has a huge heart and is the funniest person i’ve ever had the pleasure of laughing with. he is quirky (loves DEVO, golfing, payton manning and belting out the occasional justin timberlake song) is an amazing musician (he is an admired drummer, as in, i’ve seen people drool and drop their jaw as he plays) and now my most favorite, a kick ass dad.

he deserves a round of applause for putting up with me (can you imagine?) and for working so hard for our family. i fall asleep during movies he wants to watch and i forget to make his coffee, yet he still loves me when i say things like “monkeys lay eggs right?” (another post for another day i suppose). he thinks i am the funniest person alive and for that he deserves some sort of award.

this post brought to you by him, who today, after working 12 – 16 hour days every day this week, brought ME flowers home and cooked ME dinner.

he really is that awesome.

post summary: scot is rad and monkeys do not lay eggs.

Comments

  • Sandy

    Love this post. LOVE it. My hubby’s name is Scott to (but with 2 t’s). You guys seem to have a great relationship.

    And P.S. I love your blog!!

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  • http://www.gjmoorhead.blogspot.com Gina

    Beautiful post, and what a beautiful love story! I’ve been working on a post for my sixth wedding anniversary tomorrow, and you’ve totally inspired me!

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  • http://ninjapanza.blogspot.com sara

    SO SWEET. I love hearing (eh, reading) stories about how people met, fell in love, and STILL love each other intensely. Well done!

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  • http://look-at-the-birds.blogspot.com/ t.bird

    aw aw aw aw aw!!!

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  • http://look-at-the-birds.blogspot.com/ t.bird

    ok i didn’t mean aw=attention whore. i meant like a ton of awwww’s. but broken up cause that’s what i did when i read this. like aw…aw…AWWWW! you know?

    yeesh.

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    Mandy Reply:

    HAHA! i didn’t even think that for a second. i think i’ve been outta the game too long! :]

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  • http://www.aboutallthingslife.com kerri

    SUUH-WOOON!

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  • GG

    I couldn’t have picked a more perfect match for you (as if I had any say in the matter!).
    To say that Scot is one of my favorite people is an understatement.
    I’m so happy that you found each other.
    Love to you all.
    GG

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  • http://www.growingsweetpea.blogspot.com/ Mama Pea

    My favorite part is the gum wrapper ring :) Good story!

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  • http://twitter.com/NCW11 Nikki

    This post made me love my own husband a little bit more today. Thanks!

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  • http://thelungos.blogspot.com Mama Lungo

    What a sweet story and post. thanks for sharing!

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  • http://jessesco.blogspot.com Jessica

    Wow. That is awesome. What a sweet story.

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  • http://bliss04.blogspot.com/ Amy

    sounds like an amazing guy, how lucky you are! but you didn’t show us a pic of the ring! :) AND you should do a post about your wedding, it looks beautiful!

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  • Jen

    Awesome tribute to the hubbs, Mandy. Seriously. Awesome. He sounds like an amazing man and an even more amazing papa!

    Your blog is the best!

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  • http://singingatastoplight.blogspot.com Molly

    Awwww, he sounds like a good catch! I always marvel at how quickly some people get engaged. And then I remember, that my hubs and I probably would have gotten engaged after a few months too if he hadn’t been in school and we hadn’t been poor (i.e. there was no money to buy me any sort of ring).

    P.S. outdoor wedding in August 2006? Us too :)

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  • http://www.mom-nom.com Tiffany

    Great love story and totally something I would expect from you…so fun and spur of the moment. I love it! He sounds (is) amazing. Great catch there Mandy!

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  • http://www.pyjammy.com pam

    Awwwww! So sweet! :)

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  • http://www.emmiebee.com Emmie Bee

    Oh my gosh. I Love a good sap-a-delic love story. Scot sounds amazing. Those Scot(t)s are a magical kind, I think. Hense why 90% of Mommybloggers are married to one?

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  • http://houseofburks.wordpress.com Rachel

    This was sweet. He is a handsome guy! Love the gum wrapper ring fake-out.

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  • http://www.desartdesigns.net Kristie

    I just started reading your blog (well, maybe a month ago) and I wanted to say I just love it, every part of it. Thank you for sharing your love story :)

    I don’t comment too often on blogs, but I needed to give you a big high-fivin’ white guys high five. You are awesome!

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    Mandy Reply:

    high fiving’ white guys!? you MUST be a seattlite! you MUST be!

    high fives to you, as well! awesome.

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    Jessica Reply:

    Yea High Fivin’ White Guys! You know we still air Almost Live after SNL and people still watch (or they fall asleep in front of their TVs and it looks like they are!).

    Great post Mandy, so glad I got to meet him at the reunion.

    Cheers,

    Jessica Michel

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    Kristie Reply:

    Proudly a Seattlite :)

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  • http://apandorabox.wordpress.com/ apandorabox

    awww!! i love love-stories!! and yours is a beautiful one :)
    congratulations to both of you

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  • Kendra

    Oh Mah gawd!!!! What a perfectly sweet story! Very romantic!

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  • http://Www.medicinalmarzipan.com Marzipan

    Literal GOOSEBUMPS on my arms, wearing my swoon pants, and not feeling like barfing even one little bit. Cutesy freaking story. Thanks for sharing :)

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  • http://www.therottensippycup.com Jenni

    My hubs is named Scott with 2 T’s. Things happend fast for us too. We we’re engaged 10 months after we started dating and maried months later. It’s just crazy that when you know it’s right, things happen so fast.

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  • http://jennandtonica.com Jenny

    Go go gadget swoon pants! AWWWWWW!!!

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  • http://bringingupbaby.tumblr.com Jess

    Awww, such a great post! I’m a sucker for these “the way we were” posts. It’s so nice to read one that more similarly mirrors my own experience, though — with both parties not really paying much attention to each other until one day, BAM, you’re hit with the realization you should be together.

    You guys seem like an adorable and amazing couple and I just love your story.

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  • http://Molinababysteps.blogspot.com Roxanne

    Yes, did throw up in my mouth a bit on that one :) I am so happy you have someone who makes you so happy!! You two are just perfect for each other! And I love that I am in your wedding pic! I feel lucky to have been a part of your special day and to witness scot’s awesomeness first hand!

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  • Keri

    WOW talk about hitting the Husband Jackpot. My husband isn’t romantic, I can barely get him to dance with me never mind buy me flowers (unless he is in trouble.) I haven’t started a blog because it would be me bitching about all the stupid stuff my husband does. LOL I like face fuzz personally…something about manly scruff.

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  • Bree

    P.s. You suck, cause I sitting in the breakroom at work trying to not tear up. Thanks a lot Mandy! H ha love you guys!

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  • Kelly

    You are a lucky girl. And I think maybe he is a lucky guy :) ! Being a Divorced (well almost divorced) single mom…this gives me hope that Real Love and really great men still exist!

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  • bobbi

    Scot with one t wouldn’t be complete without Mandy :)
    I should have read this later this evening because now my cheeks are wearing my mascara.

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    Kristin J. Reply:

    bobbi- you raised a good boy and got an awesome daighter-in-law! May I be so lucky with my 3 boys :)
    mandy- you are the bestest SIL in the world and I love that you love my brother so much. :)

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    Kristin J. Reply:

    hi, my name is kristin and i can’t use spell check. dai-da-dai-dai-daighter! lol

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  • http://irritableblogsyndrome.typepad.com Dayna

    OH EM GEEEE! That is officially the best engagement story EVER! Love it!

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  • http://laurenfromtexas.com Lauren From Texas

    I love this post. I love LOVE. :)

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  • http://babyostie.blogspot.com/ Anne

    Wow, what a great post, I actually started to cry a little. Love it!

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  • http://mama23bears.blogspot.com/ mama23bears

    i love your engagement story. what a catch he is!!!

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  • Katie

    Yay for Scot with one T! I remember when you brought him to our wedding and he had a super induction of our family. He is definitely a keeper. Maybe he can teach Kevin some of that romantic stuff at the next family get-together :)

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  • http://www.threepugsandababy.com Jennifer @ three pugs & a baby

    What a sweet story!

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  • Yesi Garcia

    AWWWWW… that is a great story. It sounds like you won the Husband Lottery. and how gorgeous does Harper look in that picture of her and Scot!!! Adorable!!!

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  • http://www.birdsandbears.net Megan

    Ahh, how sweet! He seems like an awesome catch!! You guys made an uber HAWT baby! Great story.

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  • http://www.postcardsfromparenthood.com Eliza

    Well, yeah…so you officially became even more awesome…because well, that’s frankly beautiful. Love it! Soooooo happy together!!!!

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  • http://crayonsandcylons.blogspot.com/ Kara

    WOW! You truly are one blessed mama! Sounds like you’ve got yourself a winner. And that was such a sweet story. Makes me miss my hub who’s been out of the country on business even more!

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  • http://www.erinlucyloves.com erinlucy

    i love this. so cute. and it makes me very happy to have my lovely husband as well, it sounds like they have lots in common. you two are totally cute.

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  • http://www.pearlsandtulle.blogspot.com krystal

    That last picture is sooooo ador-a-ble…They both look so proud! Like they both are thinking the same thing, but about each other…

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  • http://mommyisrocknroll.com Lauren

    He’s quite the hottie too. I love romance like that. It’s not cookie cutter romance which is my favorite.

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  • http://photographybyrita.blogspot.com/ Rita

    awwwwwwww, i looked at my hubby with extra sweetness today after reading this…we too had a very short but whirlwind romance =) glad you found your gem!

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  • http://www.lifelessseriously.wordpress.com Janelle

    Yeah for happy marriages! Yeah for funny, hot guys that also rock as dad’s! And yeah for sharing posts that nearly bring a tear to my eye they are so sweet…

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  • http://www.summitcampinggear.com joy smith

    I love the gum wrapper ring!!! That was so cute!!!

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  • http://the818.com Morgan @ The818

    That is one freaking amazing engagement story. I swooned, I teared up, I got the chills, and uh…yeah. Scot(ts) rule(s.)

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  • Christina Lakeman

    Loved this post! It definitely made me think about how my husband and I met and how much I appreciate him and his awesome-ness. Just started reading your blog a month ago and it totally rocks! Oh…and you and Scot sure do have 1 cute kid!

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  • http://theheirtoblair.com Blair

    Sweetness!!!

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  • http://penelopeblue.blogspot.com/ Lori

    SO ADORABLE!!! Just been catching up w/your blog :)

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  • http://Osplashcosmetics.blogspot.com Brittany Hunt

    Wow this one just made me ball my eyes out! I haven’t confide in many people but I am going through a horrible break up. I remember your wedding day and standing up there for you and being so happy that you found someone as amazing as Scot. I want you to know that even though you are far away you are still the most wonderful friend because you posted this story when I needed it the most.
    You inspire me and you made me remember that some day I will meet someone as worthy of me as Scot is of you. You Deserve all the happiness that you have and I love you so much.

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  • http://sarcastica.org Sarcastica

    Awh what an adorable post lol!! That’s hilarious about the ring made of gum wrappers lmfao.

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  • http://prettyswell.wordpress.com Suzanne

    LOVE this post, especially the proposal story. Scot with one t sounds like a very cool dude.

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  • http://www.mrsnightowl.blogspot.com Mercedes/MrsNightOwl

    I love this! What an incredible story! I especially love the gum-wrapper ring part. And yes, I know what you mean about ‘knowing its right.’ My husband and I were married less than 3 months after meeting and have been so disgustingly in love since. (We just had our two year in March.) Anyhow, I found your blog through Mrs Priss and really love reading!

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  • http://milesofserendipity.blogspot.com jess from n. illinois

    oh, this is just too sweet! what a great love story. :)

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  • http://littleloveys.blogspot.com/ Laura Scott

    ok that was the sweetest thing i have read about meeting…hooking up…and getting hitched!

    congrats on finding the ONE

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  • Diana

    OMG Mandy.. This is toooo cute. I think I just “Aw”-ed the life out of me!

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  • http://tobabylovemama.blogspot.com Chelsea @The Curly Cues

    I just read this and swooned a little. Damn, forgot my swooning pants!

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